Dating play hard to get
If you want to know how to drive guys crazy with shyness and playing hard to get, you’ve come to the right place.
When guys don’t know what you really think about them or what you are looking for, it makes them obsess over you.
On one hand, you do not want to seem too eager or overzealous about a new person because you might be perceived as desperate or annoying.
On the other hand, if they have not communicated with you for over two weeks or after calling them two or three times (and why three?
) then they are probably just not that into you (and not just “playing hard to get”). Is the principle of “playing hard to get” really a dating essential and does it really work? These studies have found that women who are physically attractive, appear healthy and youthful, and are “hard to get” correlates with them being reproductively valuable to men.
The latter will make an effort to see you as soon as she can. I am a rules girl and I choose not to accept a date the night of and, quite frankly, often not past Thursday morning for a weekend date.Now, there are always exceptions and last minute fun events or basketball tickets that come up, but we are focusing here on the beginning stages of dating, so humor me.My girlfriends and I have talked this topic to death and we have all said “no” to last minute dates and, of course, been accused of playing hard to get for it.Women who “play hard to get” give the appearance that they are more selective in choosing a mate and will not just date (or for that matter mate) just any guy.We know from earlier blogs how high-maintenance women use this tactic in spades.